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April 27 "Caution: There's a Birthday a foot"Today is a special day in my life as a blogger and as a person, for today is the day that one of blog land's most favourite personalities and friend 'Kelsey' came into this world!
Kelsey has continuously given the blog community wonderful food for thought and many an insightful and enjoyable read at an amazing rate from the time she started blogging. I was fortunate to 'bump into her' by chance, when we both took a personality test and came out with the same results on a fellow blogger's Space.
One look at her Space and I was hooked. She has always had an uncanny knack for being able to come up with topics that are not only entertaining but full of variety and 'mischief', which is a part of her trade mark personality trait. She has also been a sincere friend to many bloggers in blog land, ever ready to give a genuine listening ear to even our most mundane thoughts.
She has been mine and many a blogger's inspiration! May she thrill us with her 'mischief and insights' for many more 'Blogging Millennia'.....
"Happy Birthday Kelsey" From All At Blog Land!! October 02 Our parallel universe....There has been only one thought nagging me of late, which in itself is a good thing I guess, since at least the nagging thougts have reduced in number compared to the previous week.
The thought that has been nagging me is the fact that I have not been able to update my space and the fact that I haven't been able to do my usual visits to all my blog friends' spaces. I was describing the space world to my friend the other day, as something that has to be nurtured and constantly attended to, or it would, with time, no doubt meet a 'natural death'.
All of us in the space world seem to have become an extended family of sorts. There are things we know about each other that at times may not be apparent to our 'real world' friends. There are also certain friendships that we have made along the way, via our spaces, that we might very well hold more dear to us than some of our 'three dimensional friendships'. This is what makes the space world such a prominent and precious component of our lives.
I feel that the biggest advantage the space world brings along with it, is the fact that it paves the way for the 'meeting of minds', rather than the sensory overload caused by the meeting of minds, bodies, sweat, speech and body language etc, all at once. Here, we get to 'plug' directly into each other's inner minds without having to 'wipe our feet at the doorstep' before we enter. The close friendships made via the space world are unadulterated and thereby the perfect antidote to all our real life relationships at varying levels.
So let me take this opportunity to say 'a big thank you' to all my space friends, for all your comments and friendship extended. It has really been a pleasure getting to know all of you......!
August 16 'The Frequency of Friendship'I'm always amazed at the subtle differences among people, even among my very close friends. I have a close circle of best friends from both genders, and while they are all similar at the core, i.e. their overall outlook and principles in life, they differ at an 'intricate' level. And it is at this level that the biggest impact lies........It is at this level where good friends become best friends and best friends become inseperable friends.........
I find this seemingly differing levels of 'mental connection' between friends very much akin to 'tuning in to a radio channel'. It's almost as if each individual is transmitting his/her thoughts and veiws at a certain 'frequency', at a certain 'band width'. People who fall within the same 'band width' have similar likes and dislikes in general, and get on pretty well. These are the people who become friends. But the amount of fun people have with each other seems to increase as their 'frequencies' become increasingly similar.
I have personally experienced this phenomenon, and I have found that certain friends are so incredibly addictive that I just keep coming back for more, and I have a hoot just saying 'hello' to them. We basically laugh with our feet facing the ceiling! And the amount of fun I seem to have depends on the clarity and similarity in styles of our communication, i.e. our natural tendency to think similar thoughts and our ability to interpret them.
When the 'frequencies' are almost identical, communication starts to almost border on telepathy. Among my all time favourite occurences in life, saying the same thing siimultaneously or almost at the same time has to be right up there among the best! It's a nice feeling when two people say the same words at almost the same time and go "Oh my gosh! I was just about to say the same thing!" These are the moments when it begins to dawn on us that we are extremely similar.
Best friends are the best 'over the counter natural mood enhancers' in our life. It reminds me of what I told a good friend of mine recently regarding us being so similar in our ways; "It's like looking at myself in a mirror, except the reflection isn't me..............it's you" July 06 "Thanks a Million Guys!"I just wanted to thank each and everyone who took the trouble to comment and to give me their support, I really appreciate it! The new guy asked her out, took her to dinner and gave her a rose, so I guess the deal is pretty much clinched.
I feel totally numb at the moment. She was too close to what I wanted, hence all the mental anguish. The only reason I declined to get into a serious relationship was based on one measly detail: I felt that I was still vulnerable i.e. 'my heart had not settled in one place yet'. I would ideally like to be married to someone who I know is everything I want in life, for marriage is about living together and facing live's trials and tribulations one after another with each other, together. Our lives after marriage will be built on the foundation of how content and happy we feel being husband and wife. I felt that I was still vulnerable, and I didn't feel that I would have had the strength to go on in life if I hurt her one day.
Being committed in a relationship shouldn't be something one does in order to fulfill an obligation, or because it's considered wrong not to, but rather something that is done because it happens naturally. I thank god for giving her to me, she gave me so much and will forever be etched in my heart and mind. I would like to think I was brave, I just took a bold decision based on my gut feelings and stood by it, since that was the only 'compass' I had, and also because it was a decision I couldn't make using my brain, since logically it was too close to call.
It hurts like crazy right now, so I'm just going to have to get through it one day at a time and hope that some day I'll look back and feel happy that I at least was not a coward.
By the way I have two more weeks to submit my research paper before the end of my degree, so please forgive me if I don't comment on each of your blogs on a daily basis. I will do my best to comment whenever possible. I will be totally free after the 20th of July.................
Take care,
Thanks again,
Chris. June 21 "That is the best - to laugh with someone because you both think the same things are funny".I feel that there are few experiences that provide more satisfaction than seeing yourself in somebody else. I find that most of my happiest memories are the ones I shared with friends who were like minded. They say 'opposites attract' but I find this notion to be highly dubious in life. While I do agree that opposite physical traits (feminine vs masculine) are important for attraction, in my view, this concept doesn't necessarily hold true at a mental level. I dedicate this blog to my coolest chat buddy and blog twin, Maanu. We have a knack of cracking each other up with our own peculiar concept of 'what's funny'. We often say to each other that we are in danger of being 'locked up' if people saw the 'whacky' things we laugh about! Chatting to her is such a cool experience since we don't ever have a boring minute. We find similar life issues interesting, and we find similar issues despicable as well! Unfortunately I hurt my friend by being a tad mean to her recently and this was due to miscommunication and a few other issues that played their part in creating a picture that was conducive to misunderstanding! So I just wanted to take this opportunity to apologise to my 'four celled' buddy Maanu for any hurt that I may have caused! Hope you ain't mad at me........ Two celled Marshy. March 12 Ants...........Ants are fantastic creatures aren't they? I mean, they always stick together, they are the benchmarsk for social harmony and team work. They highlight the concept of strength in numbers, and they can move things so many times their weight. There is a proverb about ants, and the saying goes that 'as the ants keep working, even rocks crumble'. Most ants are pretty tough creatures, but the ones in Ruwais, well, it's questionable to say the least, for according to Maanu, all rolled over and persihsed because I simply stated a fact that she was a nice person. But the worse part is, she says that when she writes blogs they yawn!!! Talk about their arrogance, sheeeeeeeeeeeeesh! It's high time these Ruwaisian ants are taught how to behave! February 16 Flightless Extinct Birds and Other IssuesOkay, this isn't some anthropological blog pertaining to some lost kingdom of wild bird species. It's just that my friend Gello, tried to be all humble 'n stuff by identifying herself with one of the flightless birdies that got extinct after getting run over by herds of cattle in the Sahara. So that got me thinking, I mean there are some very crafty flightless birds still around aren't there? 1. Ostriches: I mean this birdie is one hell of a fast runner. He can out run a horse, and if that isn't enough to give a horse an inferiority complex, I'm not sure what will! Wonder why there aren't any Ostrich cow boys? Probably 'cos the ostriches would be moody 'n stuff when they incubate their eggs. 2. Kiwis: Is that bird still around? I'm not sure. But aren't the New Zealanders a proud bunch with the Kiwi as their Symbol? All my shoe polish products are branded 'Kiwi' too. Now that should get Gello thinking........ 3. Chickens: Do they come under the flightless bird category? Well, if Gello was thinking 'chicken' then I can understand her humbleness, but it has to be mentioned that without chickens there would never be any "kentucky Fried Chicken', or 'Golden Rooster', not to mention the boiled eggs 'n omelets..... Anyway, maybe flightless birds didn't inspire aviation, but they sure do show us that we should keep our heads up high, even if we might not be blessed with certain attributes or talents, hehe. As for Gello, well, who asked her to go 'extinct' herself? February 13 OCSOver Compliment Syndrome! I was breaking my head wondering what in the world afflicts me and makes me into an absolute nutter when ever I chat to Maanu. The OCS has become a liability rather than a boon of late. Little Maanu even said that she would reduce all the points I gained over a long period of time by beating her at the game we play! Now that's a serious issue, I can't afford to lose points. So what compels me to get OCS? well, da only conclusion that I have come to is dat when some ppl have similar wave lengths and similar frequencies, they tend to understand each other very easily, and they tend to agree rather than disagree on many issues. That constant acknowledgement and comprehension of one another's intentions and views seems to result in the outpouring of singing complimentary verses and syllables. Hence the easy, 'bottleneck free high speed mental communication' seems to have resulted in the OCS. I have listed a few techniques that research has indicated would work in order to overcome OCS: 1. Always lie through your teeth, ears, nose and any other possible avenues (never say 'you are great', just say 'you aren't great') 2. Whenever you feel like complimenting someone, always think of the worst meanest school teacher you ever had (that is sure to kill the mood) 3. Whenever someone seems to be an awsum person, tell yourself that everyone is awsum 4. Count to ten in an ascending then in a descending order in a foreign language you're worst at. 5. Picture sumo wrestlers doing the ketchup song (this is sure to distract you from the urge to compliment someone due to the severe shock factor) 6. Always tell yourself that there can only be one compliment per chat session, with a reduction of ten minutes in chat time with any additional compliments 7. compliment using only emoticons (ex 8. Block contact, change msn address 9 Use another chat software 10. Just stop chatting
But guess what? They never seem to work! February 04 Maanu Melody is a cheerfulness remedyThis is dedicated to my friend most sought after, maanu Melody who just comes on line with fun and laughter, oh such a thrill for me All I have to do is come on line All she has to do is be on line We talk stuff that could make the pope wince, and clowns cry We imagine stuff that would make harry potter boring and seem quite dry But suddenly Maanu goes and gets a cold................ Now that's a bummer cos me so bored......... I come on line and feel so cold, No maanu to keep me up tellin me i'm not old but like everything in life, things change from day to day..... Even little maanu fall ill and stops saying 'heeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeey' I hope she will get better, cos MSNs a misery Without dear Maanu chatting is no more a bliss for me!
Get Better Fast Maaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaanu!!!!!!!!!!!
Marshy
Btw Name for this month: 'Soup's a Maanu' (cos she's drinking lots of soup January 13 Gello's Top Ten Cool TraitsSo this is my 1st blog...........been a long time coming. Been extremely busy with my final year at APIIT. Was chatting to my buddy gello 'n me promised her dat me will put the top ten cool traits gello possesses.......... 1. always colorful n cheerful ( 2. sweetest expressions (aiyeeeee, acha,) 3. So many names (one for each month) 4. the only person dat talks in 'plural' and can still sound cool 5. Very broad minded and flexible (a trait so rare and so badly needed in life) 6. openess, honesty, sincerity and simplicity (the four must haves for any gello worth its sugar) 7. So witty (gauranteed to keep even the meanest constipated dictators smiling like silly) 8. never makes an unnecessary fuss over anything (except over rocell...........dunno how he got around gello, me sure under estimated rocell) 9. never rude, never evil (even though gello still swears dat evil prevails 10. A super duper pal (a true all weather friend) Name For February (2005): Bloggity Gello Street.
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